{"id":2746,"date":"2018-05-31T10:31:06","date_gmt":"2018-05-31T08:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ipsi.cat\/elfil\/?p=2746"},"modified":"2018-05-31T10:32:06","modified_gmt":"2018-05-31T08:32:06","slug":"mare-5-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ipsi.cat\/elfil\/mare-5-0\/","title":{"rendered":"Mare 5.0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quan amb 26 anys vaig saber que t\u2019esperava, vaig escriure\u2019t una carta avisant-te que t\u2019havia tocat una mare a mig fer. I avui, quan dolgut i trist (per\u00f2 tamb\u00e9 valent i ser\u00e8) m\u2019has dit que a vegades m\u2019equivoco fent-te de mare, he pensat que t\u2019havia d\u2019escriure una altra carta. Perqu\u00e8 m\u2019ha semblat sorprenent que et vingui de nou que jo patini, amb la d\u2019anys que fa que batallem.<\/span><\/p>\n

Des del primer dia que et vaig veure, vaig voler fer-ho molt b\u00e9 per fer-te immensament feli\u00e7. Tot i aix\u00f2, quan eres petit ja m\u2019equivocava moltes vegades. Potser no t\u2019ho he explicat mai. Recordo com si fos ara el dia que no vaig veure que tenies febre, et vaig dir que prou de rebequeries i et vaig portar a l\u2019escola bressol. Plor\u00e0vem els dos quan et vaig recollir: tu de mal d\u2019orella i jo perqu\u00e8 em sentia una mare desastrosa. O el dia que et va picar un peix aranya, em vaig pensar que feies com\u00e8dia i em vaig enfadar tant. O la vegada que et vaig escridassar perqu\u00e8 havies atropellat al teu germ\u00e0 amb el trineu, o totes les vegades que em descuidava de posar la bata a la rentadora i el dilluns te l\u2019enduies rebregada a la motxilla i amb un bot\u00f3 de menys… N\u2019hi ha tants d\u2019exemples! Per sort, n\u2019he anat aprenent i diria que no han quedat grans cicatrius.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per\u00f2 ara que ja t\u2019afaites, jo segueixo amb la \u201cL\u201d de pr\u00e0ctiques a l\u2019esquena. I cada vegada \u00e9s m\u00e9s complicat encertar qu\u00e8 dir i qu\u00e8 no dir. Canvies tan r\u00e0pidament! I jo ja em vaig fent la idea que et fas gran, per\u00f2 ho assimilo poc a poc; tingues una mica de paci\u00e8ncia.<\/span><\/p>\n

Per sort, ara l\u2019espifio amb m\u00e9s naturalitat. Ja no trec el flagell i em castigo com quan eres un nad\u00f3 i m\u2019havia despistat de donar-te l\u2019antibi\u00f2tic. Perqu\u00e8 s\u00e9 que soc m\u00e9s que mare (tamb\u00e9 soc parella, filla, treballadora, germana, amiga\u2026). I com que em passen moltes coses cada dia (i no sempre boniques) faig el que puc. I s\u00ed, a vegades l\u2019esguerro i em cauen algunes de les boles d\u2019aquest joc de malabars que tinc entre mans, per\u00f2 diria que he apr\u00e8s a recollir-les amb sentit de l\u2019humor. <\/span><\/p>\n

A m\u00e9s a m\u00e9s, en aix\u00f2 d\u2019educar-vos totes les mares som versions \u201cbeta\u201d. Si els playtesters dels fills ens guieu una mica, nosaltres anem solucionant els bugs, per\u00f2 si no ens doneu pistes, costa. Ara mateix m\u2019estic actualitzant i, gr\u00e0cies a la conversa que m\u2019has regalat abans de marxar, quan tornis et trobar\u00e0s amb la Mama 5.0. Millorada i actualitzada. Veus que b\u00e9? Upgrade complete! El teu germ\u00e0 ja t\u00e9 el bug resolt per quan tingui 14 anys.<\/span><\/p>\n

En resum, que no em demanis m\u00e9s que no m\u2019equivoqui. Creixer\u00e0s i, si tens sort, tindr\u00e0s amics imperfectes, parelles imperfectes, companys de feina imperfectes i, fins i tot, si tu vols, meravellosos fills imperfectes. M\u2019agradaria que aprenguessis que els errors no ens defineixen, que tenim tot el dret a fer i desfer. I si tu de tant en tant t\u2019equivoques, tampoc passa res: recondueixes, et perdones, fas una graciosa cabriola, saludes amb eleg\u00e0ncia i\u2026 Tatxaaaaan! A punt per tornar-hi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Compto amb tu per a futures actualitzacions, soci.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u2019estimo molt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mama 5.0<\/span><\/p>\n

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